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Masturbation, onanism (all the same, but how does it work?)
Nothing is easier than masturbating yourself. You will have an orgasm quickly and efficiently and afterwards you can continue doing what you were doing. Masturbation isn’t new. Masturbating is originally Latin and has been derived from the words manus=hand and stuprate which means defiling. The main part of the human race masturbates. In some stages of life more often than in other stages and masturbation also occurs in a relationship and it definitely isn’t dirty, strange or immoral.
There are a lot of fables going round which have been invented in order to avoid that people masturbate. Masturbation would be responsible for various syndromes. The masturbation act would have a bad influence on your ears, but also symptoms of disturbances of equilibrium and disturbances in the digestion process would be caused by masturbation, that is what amongst others doctors claimed in the past.
Except for physical complaints people also thought that masturbating would be responsible for various mental restrictions. Pisa-studies would have proved this but it is claimed that they aren’t very reliable. Young children also play unconsciously and uncoordinated with their genitals and experience pleasant sensations while doing this. During puberty boys and girls start to discover their body “consciously”, this stage is very important for the sexual contacts later on in their lives and the way young adults cope with sexuality. By having a good contact with the own body and experiencing things with the body they will be able to inform their partner better what they like and what they don’t like. Parents often block this development and exert moral pressure on them. Beloved statements are: Masturbation causes impotence, infertility and deafness. Guess what? The person who listens to this crap will finally be left holding the baby.
In what way do men masturbate?
Of course everyone has his favorite way. Various techniques are known like moving the foreskin back and forth and stroking the glans; also called jerking off, whacking off etc. But touching and playing with the balls or stimulating the surroundings of the anus can give the man a lovely orgasm. Not only women benefit from a vibrating tool, there are also many nice toys available for men which complete the old-fashioned jerking off. The only thing we can say is that you just have to try everything in order to find out what does and what doesn’t work for you. Sexshop TakeThis has many articles in stock for men. The following links will bring you to a number of example categories like Cock rings, Penis pumps, Sex dolls and Masturbators. Of course this isn’t everything. If you go through our shop you will probably find many more nice articles.
What about women?
Women have the same needs as men. Masturbation includes stimulating the genital organs. You can stroke the nipples, clitoris, labia and anus or you can place your own finger in your vagina. A vibrator is a solution especially for women. Ladies, attention: you must learn to use a vibrator or dildo. You can learn this by using it as much as possible. There are no masturbation rules. Everything is allowed: as often, where and whenever you want. Just do it. Sexshop TakeThis has a large collection of toys which makes masturbation for women even more pleasant. For example we have: Vibrators, Clitoris Stimulators and Vibrating eggs in stock. If you click on the links you will immediately reach the corresponding category. Don’t forget that this isn’t everything. If you go through our shop you will probably find many more nice articles.
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